Hi I'm

Nichola

I am a Relationship and Divorce Healer Specialist and believe wholeheartedly how powerful and impactful having someone by your side, giving you space to feel heard and seen, someone guiding you and helping you towards healing.

I love helping people through difficult times, helping them feel hopeful when all hope seems lost.

I love witnessing people's transformation from unworthiness to feeling completely deserving, feeling more compassionate, and having more understanding toward themselves.

I truly believe once we find compassion and understanding of ourselves then we can have it for other people thus enriching and deepening our connection to life itself.

I love how helping people unlock their own personal creativity can give them the tools and strategies to assist in all aspects of relationships from their personal relationships, relationship to health, relationship to their bodies, relationship to finances, to work, and to themselves.

Also with the use of hypnosis, I've also had the pleasure of helping people overcome the fear of starting a new stage of life, healing from the past, creating a new compelling future, increasing confidence, weight loss, decision-making, feelings of stuckness, anxiety, self-love and much more.

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I got started on this journey whilst I was teaching Pilates. I worked with many people who really didn't like their bodies very much and didn't give themselves enough time to nurture themselves.

I found that people were prioritising work, cleaning, looking after the family over and beyond prioritising their own personal health goals. I saw that people didn't prioritise their own creative projects or spending time with friends, or starting that dream business would just get pushed further back, myself included!

I thought it was so sad just the amount of people who were so unhappy with their bodies and had no self love or compassion. It was sad to hear people who were struggling with relationships and so unhappy with life.

This set me on a road of discovery, of learning, and wanting to understand more about people and what makes people happy.

Why Relationships & Divorce Healing?

Good question.

Firstly, I'm fascinated by relationships and how we are all in relationship with everything, with loved ones with our bodies and health, with money, with our homes and neighbours, with nature, and most importantly with our own internal spirit. But yet we seem to find it all so hard and such a struggle.

The second reason is more of a personal reason, in 2016 my life turned upside down and, what felt like at the time, everything was slipping away through my fingers like sand, my world was coming crashing down.

I was faced with moving country, out of our family home and going through a painful divorce. I blamed myself for everything, I was broken and couldn't see a future, I actually didn't even want to think about any future if it meant I was alone.

My experience during the divorce and after the divorce was one of a very dark time indeed, despite everything I had been learning about relationships, self-esteem, self-development, and limiting beliefs, this all went out the window, I was stuck in the feeling of immense hurt, fear, guilt, frustration, hopelessness, helplessness and feeling so alone.

I couldn't find the help that fitted me, there wasn't the help available specific to people like me going through a divorce. Nothing felt like it was navigating me toward a brighter future, but instead made me feel even more stuck in the past. Don't get me wrong I am very grateful for the help I did get, and what I learnt as this has helped me to be able to help others.

I remember one day just realising I need to help myself now, for my two sons sake and for my own sake!

So back to the books I went, this time learning so much more about healing, relationships, trauma, hypnosis (yes I actually googled can you be hypnotised to forget your ex). I read everything on self-love and self-compassion, self-acceptance, and most importantly forgiveness, and much more.

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